In response to this video, I'd just like to go on the record and say that just because someone says "you've changed so much" they don't necessarily mean that in a bad way. I was a geeky kid, not popular, just very awkward and out of place. If someone came up to me, which they have, and said, "you've changed so much, you're so different." I'm not going to get mad at them, I'm going to be happy and proud, because I was trying to change and clearly I succeeded. So, no its not a bad thing when some one tells you that you've changed, look on the positive side and take it as a compliment.